Engaging in a gospel conversation with a non-believer is a lot like navigating a road trip. You start with a destination in mind, encounter twists and turns, and seek direction along the way. Both require preparation, flexibility, and patience.

Just as we follow the rules of the road in a car, we can follow spiritual principles to help guide our conversations with wisdom and grace.

1. Fill Up First

But he would withdraw to desolate places and pray. Luke 5:15-16

Filling my tank with gas is essential on a road trip. It provides the fuel I need to move forward. In the same way, filling up our spiritual tank through spending time with Jesus empowers us to move forward in conversations with others about Jesus.

We share best when we share out of the overflow of the joy and passion that comes from spending time with Him.

2. Start where they are.

I have become all things to all people, that by all means I might save some.

1 Corinthians 9:22

A key step in navigating a road trip on a map is to determine where you are and start from there. However, if you intend to lead someone to Christ, you need to focus on where THEY are and start from there.

Learn about their current situation by asking questions about their background, worldview, and circumstances. Hearing their story sets the stage for you to share your story using illustrations and examples they can relate to.

3. Utilize the “on-ramp” of spiritual things.

So Paul, standing in the midst of the Areopagus, said: “Men of Athens, I perceive that in every way you are very religious. For as I passed along and observed the objects of your worship, I found also an altar with this inscription: ‘To the unknown god.’ What therefore you worship as unknown, this I proclaim to you.” Acts 17:22-23

The purpose of an on-ramp is to allow the driver to get up to speed as they enter the highway. Similarly, discussing spiritual matters before introducing the gospel helps you get up to speed by learning about the person’s beliefs and experiences.

It also serves as a great buffer for the non-believer. Immediately shifting from discussing the weather to someone’s eternal destiny often shuts down more conversations than it extends.

4. Follow your Guide.

For all who are led by the Spirit of God are sons of God. Romans 8:14

A GPS is a great guide when traveling. It provides direction, indicates where to turn, and suggests the best alternative route. Just as we are dependent on GPS while driving, we need to be dependent on the Holy Spirit’s guidance in our conversations regarding direction, timing, and tone. This involves prayer, sensitivity to His direction, and trust in His leading. 

5. Expect detours.

…always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect. 1 Peter 3:15

It is always a good idea to expect the unexpected during a road trip, including detours. This idea also applies to conversations about Christ.

Don’t panic when people raise objections or change the subject. Be flexible, listen well, respond graciously, and trust God’s control and timing.

6. Keep your destination in mind.

For I am not ashamed of the gospel, for it is the power of God for salvation to everyone who believes. Romans 1:16

Every trip has a destination, and it helps to keep that goal in mind as you navigate your journey. In the same way, remember your conversation has a goal: to lead that person to the Lord.

You may not always reach your destination, but you can strive to move that person at least one step closer through your words and actions. Your words may be a vital mile marker on someone’s path to Christ.

For additional tips on navigating gospel conversations, check out this blog.

https://www.evantell.org/gospel-conversation-tips/